Ugh it's so hard isn't it. I'm with you, when they sit texting the op in front of you its heartbreaking. I ask myself how the sweet guy I married could cause me this amount of pain and have the sheer cheek to do this in front of me. But they aren't that person. They are utterly selfish, the most important thing to them is their happiness.

I think if you've suspend the contract she would still find a way to get in touch with them. Think of a drug addict- they would sell their grandma for a fix, a wayward is the same


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