Hey Mu, just letting you know I posted a comment on MWD about the value of wisdom and a learning it as I get older. Look for the Hobbit!! Jellyxxx We will get you through this Mut. As V says I internet promise!
Mu, sorry to hear about the new development. Give yourself time to grieve and take things slow. Be gently with yourself and don't tske all of the blame for this. You had your role in the breakdown of the M just as she did, neither of you are 100% responsible. She choose to walk away and not try when you did. You worked on your flaws and became a new person, don't discount that.
Her walking away isn't about not forgiving you, it's about her. Not wanting to do the work or feel certain things, not wanting to feel worse about herself because of her actions. I'm sure you see the other likely roadblock but none of it matters. It's her life and her choice, which is a loss for her in the long run. There will be life for you after this, no matter what happens.
You're going to be ok mu, just keep following your path. It's going to hurt and wont be easy but you will come out the other side just fine. Talk to you soon.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
I just begged her for a 1% chance of not divorcing and she said no. She is not sure that we can even stay together for my son to graduate high school. I am dead inside
I can't figure out how to join facebook, I'll go ask my daughter. I see you my friends, I just can't think straight.
Mu. I'm sorry. It's the hardest thing I have been through, by far. Be strong for the kids, they need a role model who isn't completely selfish. Teach them that people have value, and aren't disposable. Show them the love of a parent. Protect yourself, emotionally and financially.
Take her complaints with a grain of salt. Remember that she can twist things, rewrite history, etc. Don't take it personal,if you can. It's all about her and always was. Things may change, but it isn't time now.
Chin up, brother. Join fb, find the bus... there is much love and support for you to find there. Don't worry, I'm not allowed to touch the radio!
You are held in high regard, many people see your worth. Don't forget it
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
