Sadhub,

You will get through this. We are on the same path, I am a little further ahead in the D. Protect yourself with your L.

My W and I went half way through the process and dismissed the D only to find out that since she did not respect my boundary of ending things with OM she then filed for D since I chose to stay where I am.

I would also like to find some threads that DB after a D.

H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...