4. I did nothing for him...taking care of kids was not for him. (I disagree with this and feel that he does not know how much of a job it is to be responsible for young one)
J, that sounds dreamy to me. I wish I could've spent more quality time with my W when we were M. We only went on two vacations together in 10 years. We rarely did anything together. It was never possible because of the kids, kids, kids, kids, kids, can't do it, can't leave them, can't, can't, can't, until I finally lived my own life because I didn't have an alternative.
But independence is one thing...what is H referring to when he talks about how you did nothing for him? Obviously he wouldn't be saying this if he really wanted nothing from you other than space, right?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
