Mutatio, I have been where you are right now. Consider the following. Aren't you kind of divorced already? You cannot touch your wife, sleep with her, say you love her... This is not the end, it clarifies things and may relieve the weight you feel on your shoulders once the initial shock passes. Nothing is different, the swamp has just dried and you are in solid land. You know what you want, so just keep working on that. You've seen from this board that divorce is not the end of DBing. Hang in there, we are here for you.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15