I don't know how many of "us" poor folks have had to have the "we are getting" divorced conversation with their kids but from the months on this board it seems many have...

Unfortunately my D is young and am concerned she will be crushed. I started to write out our "script" as I dont trust my STBX to wing this as she is off the rails. I started to write down what we would say and lost it. I have to be strong when we tell her and can't cry and break down as we talked to a co parenting counselor but I really don't know how I will do this.

I have still not found a new place to live as its been tough. While my Lawyer iniitially said don't move out she now says I should since we are going to have a custody arrangement in place and interim financial arrangement.

Its real and raw right now. any that have gone thru this with young ones (6 yr old) and have questions they have asked please let me know so I can be prepared ....thanks and god bless


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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....