GWH: Thanks for your note. Yes, the In house sep is hard. My heart cries out for her and as I work from home everything is reminder of my sit. I've read a few threads/post where people's spouse are hours away and/or they only see them for a few minutes every week or two. That also sounds hard.
I'm actually challenging myself to make some kind of change(s) every single day - I'm pretty good at the GAL but without my W here I would not be able to get a grasp on what I need to change inside me. Those changes are the hardest and I'm sure will take the longest to become evident to her. Yes, she may not see them - in fact I know she does not want to see them.
I'm hoping that she will see the changes (and hopefully she will make a couple on her side too) before the clock runs out and she moves out in June as she as stated.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017