GWH: Thanks for your note. Yes, the In house sep is hard. My heart cries out for her and as I work from home everything is reminder of my sit. I've read a few threads/post where people's spouse are hours away and/or they only see them for a few minutes every week or two. That also sounds hard.

I'm actually challenging myself to make some kind of change(s) every single day - I'm pretty good at the GAL but without my W here I would not be able to get a grasp on what I need to change inside me. Those changes are the hardest and I'm sure will take the longest to become evident to her. Yes, she may not see them - in fact I know she does not want to see them.

I'm hoping that she will see the changes (and hopefully she will make a couple on her side too) before the clock runs out and she moves out in June as she as stated.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017