Thanks for being here with me through this biz and hub. Today I tried setting a boundary, without stating it. My W was talking about $ and she got upset. So I said, " I would like to help you, but I won't talk to you while you're angry" and then I walked away. About 1/2 hour later she said she was sorry for acting like that, she was just frustrated with her finances. I validated, didn't say ok or anything. I also just left to play pool with a family friend (her cousin's husband). I was super nervous because I didn't tell her about it beforehand, I kissed the kids and then said see you guys later ( W said ok) and I left. I hope she didn't see my nervousness (not very manly).
