Hey, mleigh, maybe your H met with mine this week… Funny, looks like my H was at the same place a couple of days ago, according to business credit card charges. Maybe they compared their MLC scripts to see if they are on the “right” truck in the tunnel, LOL.

I’m glad you were able to make that b-day dinner. I’m sure you feel better about it now. It is interesting how these things come up for us. I have similar feelings, like I want to do something nice for H, then I think that he made his choices and has a separate life now, and there are consequences… But… I do feel some compassion once is a while, and especially when things don’t go well for him.

I also catch myself on the thoughts that I don’t even think that much about H anymore, and I certainly don’t expect his texts. It feels liberating. Mleigh, there is no doubt you’ve made a lot of progress.

It is great that you enjoyed your "staycation" and were able to bond with your son even more. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state