This is a great post. I can now relate to my W and how I made her feel. The difference is she is WW. She takes action immediately.
When I was willing to sacrifice everything to move to Toronto to co-parent she was happy. The problem is that I don't want her cake eating. I can continue to detach from her even there but it is very difficult for me to sacrifice half my income and move to a different city that costs more. I know logic does not work with W at this time.
I guess I will end up with a D and continue to improve/change and see if sometime down the road she will be attracted to me again. Who knows?
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...