But toddler runs in, looks at h and runs off upstairs. H didn't even say hello to him. Kind of confirms to me this anger and funk he is in, is nothing specifically to do with me
Hi Cherry,
This is good to recognize, as it can help us not take everything they do or don't do so personally. The fog is far reaching for them, because they are in an emotional self protection mode. It's hard to have bad emotions running through at the same time as good one's. So while it still stings, we can keep our focus and know that at some point they will come out. We just need to stay focused on doing what is right and hold on to hope in the difficult moments. That is what will help us heal and keep us strong. Share some extra love with the little ones, it helps them and it helps us.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine