Phoebe:

Thanks for your comments. I really feel for you and your struggles. Keep on the path, I'm sure you are doing great. I really liked my DB coach's comments about small consistent actions are key. Any help I can give you - please reach out.

I have not been able to get the messaging tool of this site to work.

I was beginning to doubt myself a little. I have no idea what is making an impression on my WW/WAW. So it's hard to know what is working. I'm willing to stretch myself and totally do what is not expected.

I'm doing OK at GAL and I think I'm getting ready to step it up. I realize that I can't just start doing what she has been resentful about. I need to do new things - hard to know what they are.


All DB/DR's let me know what works for you and throw some ideas at me/us.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017