Here are his posts as "Puppy". I think by the time he left his stitch as "Chocolate Eyes", he did not maintain his own thread, but responded to others.

Puppy Dog Tails: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...s&page=1209

Below are his posts as "Starsky". Somewhere in the more later years, he gave the links to his personal story as "ole Chocolate Eyes". He has thousands, b/c he was on the board a long time in the SSM forum, until he discovered he had a wayward wife in an affair. If you find those links, look around the summer of 2007 and see how Choclolate Eyes handled this situation.

Starsky:

Btw, when Starsky first started posted, he was in disguise (long story), so the first few posts, he pretended not to know very much.......I think to throw the mods off, IDK. There had been a big house cleaning where some of the really "tough crowd" were banned from the board. I think maybe i was in line to go next.........cause the mods said enough to let me know they were watching me, but it didn't happen and I'm still here. Whenever Puppy came back as Starsky, he .........oh well, no use in going into all of that history. Just don't let the first few posts of Starsky's fool ya.

DB Mods have stopped listing those old links, but if you know the user name, you can find still find them. It takes some digging!

Unfortunately, I do not see his personal thread. He didn't give long winded posts, but what he said was solid.

Coach's threads: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&id=21016

Another really tough love man was Gucci Loafer: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&id=19741

One of my favorite tough guys was Robx. If you read any of those old threads I gave you, you will probably run across one of his posts......if so, his personal thread is priceless. You've got to read it. He saved his marriage, too!


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