Anyhow, my spiritual leader, continues to advise me and encourage me to seek out forgiveness for myself, so that I can accept my errors, and learn from them and move on in a manner that changes any poor behaviors from the past. In this I will find peace and be able to change my future behaviors to be a better person. If only I knew how to release the guilt that I feel.
Hi SadHub I read your sitch and I lived what you are living 9 months ago. I too have 2 daughters and a WAW-MLC / bipolar / alien abducted spouse.
Trust me this is not your fault. Your wife is broken and reading about her brother and her family, there is nothing you could of done different to avoid this trainwreck. You could of been Romeo and the best father in the world this would of happened anyway. Your wife missed basic skills in dealing with life and problems as a child . Now she is at a point she can't handle it and it's causing her pain and termoil. Sending her into a crisis that will affect your whole family. It's hers to own and fix.
I know you will be the stability your girls need right now. To end this cycle and avoid your girls repeating later on as adults what your W is doing. Your D17 reminds me so much or my D15. Wise beyond her years.
You know your faults, fix them for you and your D's. Your W has a long way to go and so much to learn. She like mine never gave you a clear reason why she is leaving. To her the relationship and you are the cause of her pain. She will project and spew things onto you. Don't let it get to you. Stay strong .
Having V here is a plus. Keep posting for you and for the lurkers that read your story trying to understand their own
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M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
