I'm picking up the opposite, that her EA (which may have been a PA) is starting to end, and she no longer has a support structure from OM. She is looking for that support, but has told herself she doesn't want it from you, but still needs it. She may be getting sexually frustrated from OM - and now you, not giving her any?
It's confusing to type and think about, I can't imagine how frustrating it must be to live such conflicting emotions; to have decided to D someone, but desire affirmation from them, but get angry when affirmation is given, and then get angry when they are not given affirmation because the need it, and around, and around, and around....... feeling a little dizzy now.
Try not to read too much into the glimpses you get of her game. She has pieces on a different board you really don't want to know about. Keep your focus on your game and remember you are playing to play, not to win, so you don't need to know her strategy to win. If she wins, you both loose, but she will never understand that until she stops playing to win.
feeling a little dizzy now.
