I want to chime in and say MLCers love to photoshop, airbrush and crop this picture they are creating. Don't they have to do so? Who could live with their true story? Think of the true story of how these two met! You can't run and hide from that. Do not allow yourself to glamorize this for one second. They are two weak, broken people running from themselves and clinging to each other.
You've already received some really good advice about the living situation. My concern is that it seems the June date is up in the air, really, as it's not truly certain you will sell the house then, right? So, if it's okay for him to live at home 'til then, what if the house does not sell in June?
My advice is stop thinking about what "we" can afford. He is not thinking about "we." He is thinking all about "ME!" It's his problem!! There are consequences to decisions. See, he thinks everything should go his way with no twists. Is that how life works? Think about how crazy this is all getting!!!
MLCers are all about actions. You watch their actions and don't listen to their words. His actions say: "I am testing a boundary because I am a cake eater. Can I sleep around and still live at home?"
Well, can he? You do have control over the way you react.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
