I am torn on how best to deal with the custody of s14. More than a month ago s14 drew a knife and threatened om. W asked me to come and keep s14 at my place for "March and April". Then in May we would see if s14 would go back to W's place. (I assume she thought this would be post-divorce).
As soon as W hired her attorney, W has kept s14 at her place. W has not talked to me about this or explained what is going on. I asked s14 what was going on, and he says he is mostly hanging out with his friends, who live near W's place. Last Saturday I had s14, and I drove him to the park where he hangs out with his friends, and it was no big deal (its 15 minutes away). But again he ended up staying at W's place.
I don't want to push s14 about this, but we have to deal with his custody (and its effect on child support) b/c of the pending divorce. I need to figure out what is going on.
