Life's a Dance-One Step Forward and Two Steps Back

[mleigh4]

Ugh Melweb, I am not sure how you are doing it. I would have thrown out H as soon as he told me that. When you say "we" can't afford two homes, that is "his" problem. He is making his choices and you are making it smooth for him. IDK, I just don't think that is ok, for him to go spend time with her, come home, and let you know.

What advice would you give a daughter, or friend? Wanting to save your marriage is admirable, but having self love and respect comes first.

Like KML said, he can sleep on a friend's couch, like other cheaters. As for what your H told you about OW comment? It clearly shows what a train wreck she is.