Hang in there smh. I know how you feel as I was just told by my D17 that her mother is telling everyone that we are done as well. D17 hung out with her cousin that is visiting from out of town and while chatting with her, it turns out that her cousin knows of our family situation. It appears that WAW is announcing it to everyone and that there are no secrets about anything from our family affairs and sitch.
It is their way of dealing with things I guess and while it is hurtful to us, you did the right thing to share that he needs to handle it in his way, and you will do so in yours.
I say that karma will handle it for us. Chatting with the world about things when in an emotional unstable place is not good for anyone, but all we can do is focus on ourselves, and our behavior in these moments.
My prayers are there for you and everyone going through challenging times.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine