One of H's big gripes is that I didn't want to have children... He feels that I thought he wasn't good enough for me. (I did explain to him why not, but he heard what he wanted to hear, I guess.) We both already had children and I was almost 40, he was past his mid-40's. At the time, he said it was up to me and he's be good either way.

All our posts just confirm to me over and over that open conversation and honesty is key in relationships.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17