14 days of sheer hell

[Cherry]

It's great to read a success story and inspiring to see how strong you where from the get go. I've been through this was whilst he had an affair. When that ended we go back together quickly, so quick that I don't think he tackled his own demons. It is easier to blame me for unhappiness rather than address that this is all him. He has tuned in and out for months before delivering me with this again and the inevitable big d convo he wants.

I guess what I've learnt from you here is this is all his issue. It isn't me, although that doesn't help me and this pain. But the way you made her SEE that sense of loss is what tells me what I need to do. He needs to see that he actually stands to loose me- and that needs to scare him