Hang in. Stay consistent. She sees some, but is not convinced.
As twisted as this sounds, and maybe if I were in your position it might be different, but I would be thrilled if W were ALL over the place. She is so unemotional and detached. I told someone it is like talking to the neighbor about taking care of the kids. She is so distant and says nothing about ANYTHING to do with M, R, feelings, etc.
I know it is difficult to see through her mess, but the fact she is showing emotion, anger, confusion, care is GOOD.
