I will try to find a way to get in touch and get some help.
V I have ordered the DB book but it has not arrived yet so I haven't been able to read it. I read Sandi's rules daily and try to stick to them.
The biggest problem I have right now is I feel if I follow the rules I will be pushing my W away but I understand that is needed for my own protection and for her to actually feel a loss.
Thanks, Albac
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
