Hey G, write him the letter and then burn it! Personally, I don't see how sending him this letter is of any value. It's done when you say it's done not when he reads your letter. Believe it or not, he's hurting too. It's hard to give up someone wonderful especially when it's because he just can't do what it takes to have a relationship right now. I say, let him be. But that probably makes me odd man out here...c'est la vie But that's my 2 cents...and it's in Canadian so I probably owe you money now lol.