To ignore or not to ignore?

[sr9e2d7]

What I find the most interesting is how differently we "miss" each other. If he comes to see the baby, I'm sad the minute he leaves and for the next day or so. Everything hurts. After a few days, I find myself not hurting as much. The sadness is there, but I am able to go on. He is the opposite. He is great for a few days without seeing me, but then starts missing me. I just hope we can get through this

[roist]

Cross each bridge when they come up. You should not worry about how to handle him coming back before he leaves.

For now pull back more IMO. Don't do anything to affect his decision and act as if you are fine with it.

[sr9e2d7]

Thanks, I'll try to pull back even more!

[sr9e2d7]

I'm having a hard night. I'm really missing my husband (who left) tonight and I want to call him, text him, reach out to him somehow. How do you get through nights like this?

[Cadet]

I'm having a hard night. I'm really missing my husband (who left) tonight and I want to call him, text him, reach out to him somehow. How do you get through nights like this?

Post here.

However stick to one thread until 100 posts.

Threads merged

[sr9e2d7]

Oh sorry!! Thanks for merging!

[Cadet]

Hope you got some sleep last night.

Posting on the forum can help you get through a bad night.

[sr9e2d7]

Sleep is the tough part. At least during the day I have distractions, but nighttime gets me. I keep thinking about him moving out officially this week and it is all I can think about. He hasn't been staying here anyway, but now that he's officially getting his own place it's just too real

[mvgfwd2]

ZZZquil takes care of the sleep problem.

[DDJ]

I find that I have the greatest clarity of mind during the middle of the night. I'm trying not to fight the sleeplessness, rather going to embrace it.