Thanks Tim. I am back and forth with the guilt. I don't know if my issues were reactions to husband or my own. Probably a mixture of both.
My husband's major complaints about me:
1. Always negative. (Am working on this) 2. My anxiety. 3. Being verbally abusive. He would tell me that my words were cruel and I would respond that his actions were crueler. I Would make very passive aggressive comments when I felt frusturated, invalidated, and hurt. I have made a 180 regarding this. 4. I did nothing for him...taking care of kids was not for him. (I disagree with this and feel that he does not know how much of a job it is to be responsible for young one) 5. I didn't go back to work full time.
