He might be someone that cuts and runs when the M hits a tough patch...but then again he's here doing the exercises so maybe he is someone that has the commitment to work through those tough times. In fact, if you look at most M's, the best of them go through times like this, the majority don't make it. Glass half full.
Meanwhile, hold yourself to the same standard and focus on what YOU bring. He deserves someone that doesn't feel they deserve better when he's navigating through the hardest patch in his life. Be supportive, patient, appreciative, and loyal. That's what he deserves. Provide that and let him worry about his half.
Zues, thank you so much for this post! It is very deep and meaningful and is helping me to see things from H's point of view too. It is hard to remember that the WAS is having a hard time when it is their choice. Thank you for the reminder.
