New Chapter Ahead

[V2pt0]

Ok, some I am officially divorced. The actual event was very uneventful as I just received a signed decree forwarded from L on Saturday. No in person court date, so I was just on my own when I received it. Really felt indifferent as nothing had really changed. It is just a piece of paper. I am still standing and it is not the end of the world. I actually see a bright oath moving forward.

The odd part is now that the decree has been signed, we (really me since I am the one having to give him stuff) have a list of items from the settlement that needs to get completed ASAP. While I need to set these into action, I also need H to take steps to order to complete. I have sent him multiple business transaction in tone emails this week regarding things I need him to do in order to get him what we agreed upon and he has not responded at all. It has been 2-3 days. This is stuff that benefits him, so it is not like I am asking him to really do things just for me. He also wanted to set up time to discuss seperating household items, which I said fine/send me some times. instead, he opted to send me an email of what he wanted versus actually having a conversation. I just agreed to his list in a very light and no worries email reply. No fight whatsoever from me. He was quite reasonable with what he wanted. I just continue to be flabbergasted but his refusal to communicate in a direct and honest way since BD and even now after we are D. Yet, he truly thinks he is the great communicator. None of this behavior makes sense. Seems if he was detached that this would not be difficult stufff to deal with. I did briefly let some of it start to bug me, but I took a step back and asked why? There was really no good reason, so I let it go. If he does not comply, I will just involve his L. Sigh...