Dear Merrick,
Between your feedback and that of the priest, total backoff has been your safest and/or wisest response. That and some distraction, right? The intensity of your W's coldness certainly dictates pulling back and distancing as much as humanly possible right now, doesn't it?

By the way, in my part of the country thongs come in pairs and we call them "flip-flops!



Laurie,
Divorce Busting Coach
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