Still hoping for progress II

[daybyday]

Well, I had meeting with WW last night at our house. I more or less just asked how we move forward after a month of S and what her feelings were. She said kinda sheepishly. "I kinda like it". I said okay. But I don't enjoy being in limbo. It's not fair for me to have to wait around for you to find yourself. I would like to share my life with someone, preferably you, but if that's not going to happen I need to be able to move on. Her response was I know, I'm not ready, its only been a month.

I asked her if there are any reservations about the S. She said yes, money. I said, well I don't want to be your financial parachute plan B. I deserve to be someones Plan A. We still had a joint acct. and she had opened a new one. I told her that I will be closing joint and opening my own as I make 75% of th income and pay all the bills. I suggested that she may have to get a second job. I asked her about dating and she said no. "do you have someone in mind?" I said "I didn't say that".

Bottom line I think was that I at least made her away that I wasn't going to sit by and be a patsy that she can string along until she gets financially on her feet, and then D me. I at least felt better about that.

We talked about non R stuff after that and she left.

Texted me 5 or 6 times this morning about S13 who is giving her trouble at her place. I just said "I'm sorry".

I know a lot of what I did is go against Dbing but maybe it has served a purpose. I did not give her an ultimatum. I brought up MC. She said not ready right now. So that is different from the absolute "no" a month before.

Back to limbo, but for how long?