TxHubby,

Wow is all I can say. You are an inspiration.

A lot of times I feel that if I did move and co-parent to the city my W lives in that we would have a friendship and be great co-parents to our boys.

Emotionally I am not sure I am strong enough to bear the fact that W is dating. She says "who would date a mom with 5 boys?", well I am sure some screwed up guy would.

If I moved up to her city I would definitely meet the list of items she requested and would develop a friendship but I know her well enough that everything would be on her terms and she would not respect my boundaries.

She has been checked out since July of 2015. I know she has not hit rock bottom. My question is do I stay where I am or do I take the chance and move like she has asked so we can coparent?


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...