Hey Jimkao,

Thanks for posting. I will have to read your thread more. That's sounded like a very one sided R. You have to move and be there for her with out any commitment on her part. You did the right thing it think.

Yes I was just posting about how I felt about pursuing. Not going to do it, but am being open to talking more, not R talk but just talk. W called yesterday and I usually let it go to the answering service. This time I answered and it was a normal conv that was not all about house stuff or moving. It was short and it sounded like she actually wanted to talk to me.

Small steps like you said.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016