Vise,

My WW wanted me to pursue her also. I bought her earrings and a necklace for Valentine's Day and she did not even put them on. A couple of weeks later she said that I did not do any grand gestures when she came back to the home.

She did everything a WW is supposed to do. Her definition of reconciliation was to co-parent in the city she lives in. None of that met any of my needs so please be careful with pursuit. Our first round of D was dismissed and then when I told her I wasn't moving up to her city to co-parent she now filed for D. I guess the one thing I did wrong in this scenario was to tell her I wasn't moving, but when I asked her if she would stop dating she never answered. I can't risk everything for her just to get nothing in return.

So please be careful with pursuit. Baby steps and temp check.


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...