My H is home and wants to be alone but has not made a move to leave. He is having an EA with an old hs GF who contacted him on FB. They are both about to be 50. I went through this 10 yrs ago when he turned 40...PA and filed for D. He wanted to reconcile and we did. He hasn't mentioned leaving but yet does apartment searches (I am bad...check computers and texts/calls) and tells me he loves me after I say it first. I am so conflicted. We have a good family and a good marriage. We don't argue. I am trying hard to ignore his behavior and move on with my life but I keep wanting to call him on the carpet for contacting OW after he told me it would stop. Trust is a major factor for me right now, yet my anxiety has me projecting the future. Somebody stop me! PacLove, I have had a 6 month sep outside the home and now we are still sharing a home/bed etc.. Both are hard. I am keeping the fact that he is home, telling me he is committed to our marriage in the front of my mind. I still am having a hard time with that because I hate that he continues to talk to OW.
