Cherry, if you ever have the chance to get to his phone again, send all the texts to your phone first before deciding what to do. If you should decide to confront him again, this is tangible proof that you're not paranoid. Will prevent him from doing major gaslighting like he did.
He can't accuse you of snooping since he gave you full transparency.
I am no vet but it seems like you may be back to dbing again?
Sweetie, I am not asking you to consider D or even S, but perhaps it's time to seek some legal advice as to what you're entitled to. I consider this preparingfor the worst but hoping for the best. Get your bases covered while continuing your DB efforts.
And please keep your cards very close to your heart. And please dont feel the pressure to act right away.
If you need to, just keep posting here, even if the replies are slow.
(((Cherry)))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
