I agree, there is definitely pros and cons for both.

In house does give them to see the changes in you, and still see you getting by with kid just fine. The first time my h did this and then came back, he said that seeing me getting by and being a great mom is what made him second guessing. You've just got to be really careful and stick to your boundaries as although we were in seperate rooms- there was occasions we would have sex.

In a way i see her as cake eating, but at the same time I see a woman who is starting to second guess her decisions and wants to keep her family close for fear of loosing them


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16