Hi Anjo. Ive read and re read your post and one thing really stands out for me as very wise and very very important. ,,,,,,,

He even went far to say that it would really positive to have sex with another man.

I'm very selfless and if that what your IC thinks then I would like to volunteer for the job. LOL smile smile Of course I would expect you to buy me dinner first !!!!!!

ONLY KIDDING (. About the dinner )


All joking aside , you saw the picture and you have put your interpretation on it. You may be right but you could easily be wrong Let it go as you do t know what it means

IMHO you are still reacting to stuff and not relaxing back and letting things happen re XH. From what you post he is in the push / pull phase and not ready to commit.

It's hard to read the rest of your post because I know you are an attractive lady , on the outside and more importantly on the inside so while I understand it's how your feeling please know you are very pretty IMHO

Great news re the career advice and while money isn't everything , it certainly helps !!!!

Follow your heart re XH because your wonderful explosive temperament doesn't help you with making wise choices sometimes

Take care Anjo. From number one volunteer for ICs advice. Rd. xxxx