Stop mind reading. Enjoy your day.

It is not weak to apologize. If deserved. In this case probably not needed.

Yes you don't want to be argumentive, but by careful about not defending yourself. Let unimportant stuff slide, but don't be walked over.

You are showing initiative and pro activity. That is positive. But I get the impression it is to SHOW W and not a real change. Make it real and for YOU and it is great.

And enjoy yourself today.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together