Starting to do things right?

[TimR]

IDK Pac. Just as you I can see the pros and cons to both. Thinking rationally, I would say detaching is shown much more by saying no. But I know the allure of having them closer so you can show off just how much you changed. Unfortunately, if she is rebellious IDT she cares about your changes right now. I think seeing that you have become a better person will infuriate her. WWs see no goodness in us, just contempt. It also makes it easier on her and harder on you. No rent, no problem. Yet she will always be around to see you low moments. Therefore, despite the allure, I would have to say no, I don't think it is a good idea, especially when she is in denial mode.