H just told me that he has started telling a few people that we are done. It broke my heart all over again. He asked if I had and I said no. That my DB coach (I just said my therapist) had warned against telling a lot of people right now as you usually just end up getting all their conflicting emotions and opinions. He asked what if he felt he needed to tell people. I told him his process is his process, to do what he needed to do, and I wouldn't stand in his way.
So sad right now. I really feel his mind is set and there will be no turning back for him. He is just done.
