Way Too Late Pt 3

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1313 I cannot tell you why the WWs want to see us miserable they just do. My WW was telling everyone this weekend about her big announcement, "I have to tell you there is a new man in my life, yada yada yada..." Then the next sentence was how badly she thought of my jogging buddy who was there. OMG OM2 was there with her, why worry about what I am doing? But that is just the WWs not happy unless they know we are miserable.

But that is not the real point I want to make. I want to point out what my priest told me about forgiveness. Forgiving is not the saying it was ok, it is not coming to terms with what happened, it is that the action no longer has power over your emotions. Not the same as dropping the rope, cause that could be followed by anger. No it is not allowing her actions to hold any power over your emotions. WOW that is a difficult thing to do but as he explained that is Christly.

I am sorry you are still in love with your WW, I know how much that hurts. I understand how much it hurts and feels like she is parading OM in front of you. I promise though it will fade. The pain may turn to anger but the pain will fade. It may turn into resentment but it will fade as will the anger and resentment.

I wish you the very best 1313 from the bottom of my heart, I wish for your pain to subside!