She has the dog, she has the house, she has everything.
No, she doesn't have everything. She doesn't have honor. She doesn't have true reality. She doesn't have respect. She doesn't have honesty. She doesn't have trust. Most of all, she doesn't have you!
I am so very sorry you are suffering.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!