Hey Cherry, Hang in there. I agree with what has been said so far. Don't confront until you are really sure of what you want to achieve from the confrontation. And you are ready to do it in an emotionally neutral way.
Sotto's script sounds good.
Perhaps you can post here what it is you intend to do or say. This will also take the edge off what you're feeling.
Go do something fun or physically rigorous to take your mind off things for a while. You dont have to decide what to do now.
In the meantime, while deciding what to do, you can observe his behaviour and continue with your dbing tools.
(((My favourite shade of red)))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
