Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

Better day today after 2 rough ones... W had her first "visitation" last night and left after D went to bed. We agreed to tell her this weekend.

Can't get the OM out of my mind, also suspect there's a bit of MLC going on... one of the things that eats at me is the age difference between them - OM is 11 years younger then W who's in her mid 40's, (I'm younger too but by less than half that) do you think that will matter over time? I can't help but think he'll wake up and see that as a challenge (especially if he wants kids some day)... he recently had a D (or is in the process) to his W who was a few years younger than he was, only know what my W has told me about him.