Cherry, thanks so much for the support. Everyone is so great on this forum.
I almost smiled to myself when he paused before he answered. I knew right there that I had thrown him a curve ball. It felt good to throw him off.
I am sorry to hear about your H's PA. It is such a selfish act that hurts so many people. I feel your pain. It is a maddening, frustrating, helpless feeling! Hold strong and maybe break dishes instead of car windows!