I feel like it would piss off the W if I stopped the relationship with the OM. It would be ideal if his wife found out and blew it up because she has more leverage. A part of me also doesnt want my W to get away with it.

M:37 W:38
D:11,S:7,S:4
T:8, M:5
S:6/1/15 different beds
Physical Seperation 7/5/16
Startof NC 7/22/16