i went throught he same thing. We did a lot as a family, but then when we were done with kids we did our own thing. that is why i am trying to tell you it is for the kids.

as far as her asking you to do stuff, i am kind of annoyed with it. I think maybe you should not push it off and she if she keeps asking. I think you need to stand up and politely tell her, that you do not think it is a good idea.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15