Getting out of in house S (9)

[vise82]

Hey,

I was able to go shopping for some new clothes after work. Had some time before W came home so I put new clothes on to look my best. w came home and we left to pick up the kids together. Walking up to the school I was ahead of W and she asks if I bought new clothes and shoes. I ask why and she said because I didn't have pants that color of blue.

I will take that as a you look good. It was nice that she noticed.

W took kids to eat out and picked up groceries. Kids were in a good mood. I think they like to see us all together.

We came home and kids played outside. our new neighbors W was out with her kids. I missed the opportunity to talk to her, But she didn't say anything to me. I just need the practice talking to people.

W was outside as well. She did talk to me but it was about moving. She was asking me in a way to pick up sod for her when she moves because her car is too small. I just hey you can get it in your trunk just put a tarp down. This was the first time she asked me to do something for her for her new house.

Can someone set me straight on that. Its her house she can do that stuff? What do I say?

Just more family time together.

I put the kids to bed, And same dynamic, I was down the basement and W was upstairs in separate rooms.

THis morning W was up and more moving talk. She wants to know what days I will be moving my stuff and she is telling me dates that she will be moving her stuff. I said I will have to think about it more. She is thinking that both of us will move out the same day. But really I could move out sooner as she has the kids.

Anyway. It was a bit of a reality for me as we are moving. It sort of hit me a little. As the child care schedule will begin then.

Also I have been having trouble getting credit as W destroyed mine. So she offers to co sign for me. I told her thanks but let me exhaust all efforts first.

She is going a mile a minute with this move. I think she thrives on this type of hectic life. A MC said that at one of the sessions. Just when our life is getting settled and calm W gives the ILYJNILWY and shakes up our life upside down.

THis will be move number 7 since we have been together. All initiated by W for one reason or another.