WAW w/OM, its time to DB!

[kirklan]

Question: is WW temp checking me through the kids?

second update.

last weekend during my time with the kids. S10 was feverish, WW called to checkup on him. said I should bring him to the hospital.

WW came over to drop off his insurance card. I asked WW to double check if he should go.
WW said yes take him. S10 started crying and asked WW to take him. I fully knew WW and OM were spending "Quality time" together, and this interupted their time.
WW then says " maybe just some medicine will help, he doesnt have to go" I was so enraged WW would choose OM vs S10.
I texted later telling her i was PO'd of what she did.

Now WW asked anytime the kids are sick , we keep each other updated on their condition.
I know the guilt she is feeling now. she initiates texts, their condition everyday. I always reply "thanks" "i appreciate it".

Should i even reply? how do i deal with this according to Sandi's rules of NC with kids involved.
Is she compensating for all WW's guilt?

Should i even reply? how do i deal with this according to Sandi's rules of NC with kids involved.

this question is hanging over my head! catch 22 you know what i mean?