* here is the kicker, WW thought i was G@y, i told her my therapist said i was not and i am going to a sexu@l therapist in 1 day to "make sure", when i dropped that she broke down, most likely in guilt of what she has done.
I am in no sense of speaking judging you when I ask this question, or trying to get too personal. Were you going to a sex therapist b/c of her? Was it to give her some answers, or yourself? I realize she has bullied you for a long time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!